Yes, we have started the long paperchasing journey, with the most wonderful reward. A child already perfectly handpicked for our family! What could be better? The kids are so excited! We are going to adopt an older child between the ages of 3 & 6 years old. We have also decided that we would request a girl, so her and Marissa can share rooms!!! She is just beside herself, already has the room all planned out!!! We are just sending in our first paperwork, and the road seems long, but trust me, we are always so busy, the time will go flying by! So we will use this site to keep everyone updated on the timelines and also on Ryan, Marissa and Mya!
I am sure everyone knows of our trying year of moving to Florida and coming back, Chad's business well, going out and coming back, pretty much giving up everything that we held important (Big house, vehichles, expensive toys, horses). Adopting a child now seems well, not the best timing to us, but we trust that it was not by coincident nor chance, but a command! His timing is always perfect! Chad and I went away for a night during Christmas break (it is our 20th Christmas together as a couple) 16th married, and it really gave us a chance to reflect on our lives, and on this past year. It is so humbling to know how much you have lost, but how happy in the end it makes you. Material things mean nothing. As we were talking I said to him "What do we have to show for in life of all the things that we have bought, purchased, what ever brought us happiness or joy?" and without hesitation he said "Mya", she is the only thing that we have "paid for" that brings me joy"! And it is so true! Family is all that matters in life. Hug your kids and spouse and tell them you love them!!!
It is amazing that somewhere a world away is our daughter! Please pray for her and that she is being taken care of and pray that God opens her heart for the family who desperately wants her! In older child adoptions, they are in foster care, which is nice that they live with a family to care for her! That makes us feel so good!!
Also, we have added a "donate" symbol to our blog. Please do not feel obligated in any way, but if God has laid it on your heart to help with the process and financial obligations that adopting brings, and you want to donate any amount, we thank you deeply!
Friday, January 4, 2008
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I just wanted to say congratulations on your decision to adopt, especially an older child. You are so right the benefits are really worth it. Bringing Landon home at 20 months and Liberti home at 6+ years, I hope that I can answer any questions you may have. There are complete diferent challenges but I believe you are so right with Gods Timing and plan! We cant imagine our lives without either of our children despite the challenges. We truly are blessed. Congrats again and please keep in contact through out your journey.
Nicole Hughes
Mom to Landon-3 (SLC) and Liberti-6(Chung Yi foster care)
Winter Haven, Fl
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